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John Golden has written about food for Gourmet, Food and Wine, the New York Times, New York Post, the Daily News and was an editor at Cuisine and publisher of Good Foods Magazine. He now lives in Portland, where he dines out, or searches the area's markets for the best foods to prepare himself.

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October 31, 2005
Dressed for Dinner

I suppose we should be grateful that Portland restaurants turn a blind eye to the notion of dress codes. In New York, for example, it was reported recently that Nick Nolte walked into the inimitable Nobu wearing sweat pants and slippers; and that George Clooney was reprimanded for not wearing a tie when he stopped into the 21 Club for lunch and forced to put one on.

If we cow tow to fashion at all here it’s often weather and lifestyle related, with stints at the Mall or slogging through snow banks.

If I have one fashion complaint ( not confined to Portland) it concerns people—men and women—who enter a fine restaurant wearing a baseball cap as though it were a skull replacement. Unless worn to hide a medical condition, it doesn’t belong in public rooms where ambiance might suggest otherwise. Then again maybe I’m just a curmudgeon.

Or maybe I eat out too often and get touchy about what I see sometimes.

Tonight I’m planning to stay in. We had friends in for dinner last night. It took the entire day to prepare the meal, and I’m tired. The thought of messing up the kitchen again is not appealing, so tonight’s meal will be simple. The leftover leg of lamb that I served is going to be made into a hash: quick, hearty and delicious.

Yet in the back of my mind I’m thinking: Maybe we should just go out for a nice casual meal somewhere--nothing fancy, time consuming or expensive.

I’d go to Norm’s on Congress, but it’s nearly impossible to find either a parking spot or a table. I think all the people seated have arrived by foot or by bus at 4 pm and hunker down for the rest of the evening. Popular restaurants should consider a time limit for obstinate diners

Dog Fish Café would be another choice, but it’s hard to get a table there, too, given its tiny quarters. I haven’t been all that wowed by the food recently, and I think I might enjoy my hash at home more.

Walter’s is another casual spot where a good meal can be had. I go there for lunch frequently but have never been there for dinner. Yet Walter’s is my lunch spot, and I’d hate to spoil the illusion.

Some red sauce Italian fare would hit the spot, but I’m afraid Greater Portland doesn’t have much to offer in that regard. I won’t go back to Casa Novello anytime soon, not since my recent travails there. Esposito’s is definitely not in the running either, and I’m not sure I could face the vast spaces or culinary guffaws of the Village Café.

Street & Co is another consideration. I like the food there, but now that their chef is gone to open her own place, I ‘m not sure about trying potluck.

Where have I eaten that I’ve enjoyed a lot?

There were four recent standouts.

We went to Back Bay Grill on Friday night and dinner was as good as ever. What I hadn’t realized was that founder and former owner Joel Freund had died earlier in the week. It was particularly poignant for me because Back Bay was the first restaurant that I went to in Portland before we lived here. And I was very impressed that Joel remembered us each time, often months apart. Each visit to Portland was unthinkable without going to Back Bay.

Then, as now, I often order the chicken, which chef Larry Matthews does beautifully. What was notable about it the other night was the vegetable accompaniment of spaghetti squash formed into a small cake and topped with a fragrant coating of cous cous. It’s a new dish and I urge you to try it.

The next night, Saturday, we found ourselves at Katahadin, that citadel of 1970s funk. Every time I’m there I expect to hear the Beetles or Janis Joplin playing on the sound system. Instead, what we found was a mixed crew of ever-colorful diners-- some in pre-Halloween drag and others as faithful tweedy West End patrons.

There’s certainly no other restaurant like it in Portland. It defies the frivolous notion of elegance and affects a mannered, blasé aura instead. We go about once a month and revel in this cuddly time warp. It makes me feel young, an appealing concept to us Baby Boomers.

I had a great dinner there and started off with one of Winnifred’s masterful cocktails.

For a first course I had a delicious acorn-squash tart set in cheddar custard that was sublime. It was presented on a bed of wild lettuces, spicy, crisp and utterly fresh, dressed with an assertive vinaigrette.

One of my favorite dishes there is the hangar steak. It’s steeped in an aromatic marinade, wonderfully tangy and grilled perfectly. It’s served with the best garlic mashed potatoes in town. I tried one of their new desserts a cranberry upside down cake, which I liked a lot.

The week before we were in the Blue Hill-Deer Isle area, which offered some intriguing dining options off-season. We stayed at the charming Pilgrim’s Inn in Deer Isle and had dinner that Thursday at the inn’s new restaurant, the Whale’s Tooth Pub. I think I preferred the elegant barn dinners that they used to serve, but the Whale’s Tooth, the replacement, is a critical success

They offer great pub fare. Portions are enormous, the food is zesty and the place is an absolute hit with visitors and locals alike.

One standout dish was spears of sweet potatoes in a bread coating and fried-- fabulous, unerringly fattening and filling. The next night, as we were on our way out, we noticed that the bar and restaurant was loaded to the rafters. I think they’ve hit it right, and it’s about the only place there is for dinner in the area.

Where we were going was to Arborvine in Blue Hill. It’s been around for over 5 years and has a loyal local and summer following.

The restaurant is divided into several rooms, all done up in elegant country-inn décor It draws an interesting crowd, civilized and decidedly upscale—not a baseball cap in sight. The food was delicious and it’s probably one of the best restaurants Down East.

I had a wonderful loin of venison for a main course, and others in our group enjoyed expertly prepared halibut and salmon. My first course consisted of house-smoked fish with various sauces such as a tarragon mayonnaise and a mustard sauce. I enjoyed it immensely.

When we left town the next day we stopped at the Co-op for breakfast, the local natural food emporium and café.

In their freezer is a great stash of organic farm-raised meats and poultry. The lamb we had last night was purchased there. It came from a local farm and it was very good: rich flavor, very tender and fresh tasting, even after being frozen for several weeks.

As it turns out we’ve decided to go out do dinner tonight. Hang the hash. It will be used up somehow tomorrow.

I’m not certain where we’ll go though. We’ll try to get into Norm’s, Street & Co. or Oolong. But I think the first restaurant where we can find a convenient parking spot will be tonight’s choice.

Posted by John Golden at 06:41 PM

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Comments

I don't completely favor a dress code for Portland restaurants. Sometimes, however, you want to dine out to celebrate a special occasion. There doesn't seem to be more than one or two places in Portland where one can "dress to the nine's" and not be surrounded by diners in jeans, baseball caps, shorts, and/or parkas depending on the weather. Actually, Back Bay Grill usually has neatly dressed patrons as well as dependably excellent food. Any other suggestions?

Posted by susan
October 31, 2005 07:38 PM

I find the crowd tends to be a little older and more well-dressed at places like Roma Cafe or Maria's Restaurant. I would say probably Bandol is the restaurant you're least likely to find jeans in (though admittedly I've only been once.)

Posted by Jill
October 31, 2005 08:32 PM

The private clubs have dress codes. The main dining room at the Cumberland Club requires jacket and tie, as does the Portland Country Club's Club Room. Other than that it's a pot pouri. But the better restaurants do attract diners who tend to dress well. I've been surprised that Boston is fairly casual too.

Perhpas the White Barn Inn and Arrows are the best bets for a gala evening out.

Posted by
October 31, 2005 08:35 PM

I think what people wear to many restuarants in portland is unfortuate. It can really kill the "mood" of a nice place. I don't believe you need a jacket or a tie but at least try to wear something decent. Jeans are fine but wear a nice shirt and shoes or possibly even a sports coat with your jeans. Instead I find people wearing sneakers, tee shirts etc.. that's fine for places such as dog fish, norms,shays all decent places, but when going to the more upscale places i wish people would dress the part. It creates a mood and adds to the atmosphere of the establishment. Dining for me is an event and the presentation of everything is what makes it special and memorable. The taste of the food is only one factor in the overall experiecnce at a good restuarant. Since moving to Portland there have been a number of times i won't wear certain things because I don't want to be overdressed. I'm not saying you need to go out and buy $400 prada shoes at all! However, i wish people would dress more appropriately to the surroundings they are in

Posted by nick
October 31, 2005 09:35 PM

I agree with Nick. When my husband and I go out for an evening dinner it is an escape from life's normal routine. Dressing up a bit is part of the ambiance. Nice corduroys, khakis, tailored jeans, sweaters, shoes or boots are all comfortable clothing that are suitable for many Portland restaurants. When we feel good on the inside and outside, we eat and drink better! Heck, I even dress up a bit to go for pizza at Flatbread & Co.!

Posted by ACD
November 1, 2005 08:39 AM

I agree with the caps at a meal comment.
I see parents with the family and some members have a cap on and they let it go. Hard to believe.
Parking seems to be a big problem. We have tried several spots for dinner and had to change our mind because of parking.

Have you ever tried Bruno's ??
would like to hear your thoughts.

Posted by Bernie Smith
November 1, 2005 11:38 AM

I can't imagine that anyone could really consider parking to be a problem in Portland. Outside of the Fourth of July and Sat. nights in the Old Port, it will never take more than a few minutes to find a spot. Furthermore, if it is too much of a hassle then park in the garage - it will cost you less than the price for one drink at almost any restaurants downtown.

For the most part just find spot a touch off the main drag and walk. It is good for you and feels great after meal. Even better is to walk to the restaurant from your house. If I am not mistaken - Mr. Golden has mentioned that he lives on the West End of the city. I can't imagine any scenario in which he could not walk to Norm's from there.

Posted by Eric Johnson
November 1, 2005 12:22 PM

I'll agree with Eric - if you've ever lived in a large urban area then you know that Portland doesn't have anything resembling a traffic problem. If we're going to eat in the Old Port and we drive down (we live on the East End), we'll take one quick drive past the restaurant to see if there's a spot on the street. There usually is, but if not we'll just jump in the garage. At $1/hour you can't go wrong, my friends from Boston are used to paying $10/hour or more, so I get easily irritated when people say Portland's got parking or traffic problems - trust me, we don't.

Posted by Jill
November 1, 2005 06:28 PM

I agree garages here are cheap and easy. Sometimes, it seems like too much effort over parking on the street.

Posted by
November 2, 2005 06:46 AM

I love Portland for its size, because it's so easy to walk almost anywhere you go, and generally parking isn't bad. (Though it can be frustrating to drive and end up parking halfway between your destination and your place of origin.)

However, the Old Port and many other parts of the city are not very handicap-friendly. If you have to drive for mobility reasons, even parking garages are not that helpful.

~Jes

Posted by
November 2, 2005 03:25 PM

I have to agree -- when my fiance (almost husband!) and I really want to celebrate, it is kind of weird when other restaurant patrons are in jeans and tshirts. It makes *me* self-conscious that I'm all dressed up!! But I also agree with the poster who mentioned Boston has gotten that way lately too, and my parents live in Hilton Head, SC, where everything is casual just like up here. I'm a theatre person by training, and it annoys me when people don't dress up for that anymore either. So maybe it's just a sign of the times...not that I approve. (To wit: many people just didn't bother to RSVP to our formal wedding invitation, despite the response card and the "request of a response is requested by XX 2005." sorry -- since when is it acceptable not to send a regret to a black-tie affair???)

Posted by Leigh
November 2, 2005 07:11 PM

Typo -- I believe our invitation said "the honour of a response is requested..."

Sorry 'bout the typo, folks.

Posted by Leigh
November 2, 2005 08:35 PM

For the best Italian food in Portland go to Rachels on Woodford Street. There's pleanty of parking and the food is simple, authentic and fantastic. They've also won some awards for their wine list.

Posted by Emily
November 3, 2005 08:53 AM

Another person in agreement! I don't have a problem with jeans so much as just looking sloppy, no matter the attire.
I also agree that it is fairly easy to get around this city, however walking several blocks across cobblestones in high heels is an invitation for a twisted ankle.
And Leigh, I had the same problem with our wedding. We had several people who just "showed up", and many more who we had to chase down for an RSVP. It's just rude.

Posted by Gretchen
November 3, 2005 09:52 AM

I find dress codes a bit difficult due to a physical disability (bit hard to find a dress to match my body brace, perhaps someone would like to design a brace in velvet?).
I was wondering though if you've done any reviews on your blog about disability access in Portland restaurants. If so, could you help me find a link to the archived post? If not, perhaps an idea for the future?

Posted by Gimpy Mumpy
November 7, 2005 07:33 PM

I loathe when ill attired trash enter an establishment meant for the gentle-bred and expect to be treated in the same manner that someone of my bearing and stature deserves. In most cases one does not need the lack of acceptable fashion to identify these trailer-dwellers. And the hat-wearing phenomenon obviously comes from Texas, that bastion of bad taste, where hats and boots seldom come off for anything short of a bath, which is infrequent enough to give the Lone Star State quite another nickname altogether. Are there not enough McDonalds and Walmart eateries in the world without these creatures thinking they may enter our hallowed diningrooms? I dare say it is time for the snooty diners of Portland to enforce a dress code so that my delicate constitution will not be upset by the proximity of beastly troglidites. And I am dreadfully sick of leftover leg of lamb!

Posted by White Trash
November 8, 2005 05:55 AM

White Trash your are a jewel. In the rough?

Posted by
November 8, 2005 10:11 AM


Very clever White Trash.

Posted by lynda ex-mainer
November 8, 2005 01:33 PM

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